i am always appalled by how insensitive my friends could be, or is it only me who is over-looking into all the tiny things in life?
eg. chatting on group chat about a plan they’ve made between themselves. i am like ok i wasnt invited but would you mind talking about it elsewhere like idk maybe just between you two?????
eg. so it’s my birthday tomorrow yeah? a friend said hey how about i ask xxx if she is free to come out as well. xxx is someone i had a huge quarell with and things are always sort of awkward between us. like woah. mind blowing. why would you even consider it in the first place?